How to Cure Premature Ejaculation

Do you suffer from premature ejaculation? Do you have a weak erection? Well i have another article on weak erection and how to cure a weak erection but today the focus is on how to cure premature ejaculation. Now it looks like you are suffering from the major cause of embarrassment  for many men. Then you should worry no more because i have an article today to teach you how to cure premature ejaculation. By the time you finish reading the article on how to cure premature ejaculation you would become the happiest man in the world.

Premature Ejaculation is mainly a problem with very quick ejaculation in the sexual intercourse. If you face such a problem rarely, it’s not really serious and you shouldn’t worry about it, but if it happens repeatedly, we can speak about premature ejaculation as an illness. Well, if you regularly finish sooner than both you and your partner wish, or simply in the very beginning of the act, it is worth reading this article and start fighting against this problem. visit sexualguru.blogspot.com

Actually, premature ejaculation is a common complaint today. Specialists say that almost every 3rd man may suffer from premature ejaculation at some time and would like to know how to cure premature ejaculation. That is why i wrote this article on how to cure premature ejaculation.
Premature Ejaculation Causes

It is very difficult to define causes of premature ejaculation clearly. Every man, getting older, learns how he can delay orgasm. Sometimes premature ejaculation happens when you have a new partner or have sex in new conditions, or when you did not have sex for a long time. Premature ejaculation is often caused by such psychological factors as anxiety, feeling of guiltiness or bad depression. Though, the roots can be also found in hormonal sphere, former injuries or it can be due to the application of some pills or supplements.

Diagnosis

The main symptom of PE is very quick and uncontrollable ejaculation just after the beginning of act. It occurs against our will and is caused by minimal stimulation.

To make sure you have premature ejaculation, you can visit a doctor, who will conduct a thorough examination and analyze you sexual history. It will be useful to go there with your partner, who can help in clarifying details about your sexual life. After the general research, the doctor can order certain laboratory tests and other examinations. Only after that you can start a treatment course

Treating Premature Ejaculation

Medical treatment for premature ejaculation (rapid ejaculation) includes several options. Any serious primary medical condition (eg, angina) should be treated; for the purpose of the following discussion, the male is assumed to be healthy and premature ejaculation is assumed to be his only problem. In addition, any accompanying erection problem can be treated with various methods with excellent success (see Erectile Dysfunction); thus, only passing reference is made to treatment of erectile dysfunction (ED) that may accompany the premature ejaculation problem.

Include the female partner as much as possible in the treatment and counseling sessions in order to achieve the best outcome.

1. Relieve any underlying performance pressure on the male.

    Assuming that premature ejaculation occurs when intercourse is attempted, the couple should be instructed that intercourse should not be attempted until premature ejaculation is treated. The male may use manual stimulation, oral sex, or other means to satisfy the female partner in the meantime.
    If the male always experiences ejaculation with initial sexual excitement or early foreplay, this is a serious problem and probably indicates primary premature ejaculation (the history should reveal this), which then most likely requires treatment in conjunction with a mental health care professional. These more difficult cases should be screened out.

2. The couple should then be instructed on sexual therapy, such as the stop-start or squeeze-pause technique popularized by Masters and Johnson.[11]

    The female partner should slowly begin stimulation of the male and should stop as soon as he senses a feeling of excessive excitement that may lead to ejaculatory inevitability.
    Then, she should administer a firm compression of the penis just behind the glans, pressing mainly under the penis. This should be uncomfortable but not painful.
    Stimulation then should begin again after the male has a feeling that the ejaculation is no longer imminent.
    The process should be repeated and practiced at least 10 or more times.
    Gradually, most males find this technique helps decrease the impending inevitable need to ejaculate.
    After a period of practicing this method, the couple can sit facing each other, with the woman's legs crossing on top of the male's legs. She can stimulate him by manipulating his penis close to, then with friction against, her vulval area. Each time he senses excessive excitement, she can apply the squeeze and stop all stimulation until he calms down enough for the process to be repeated.
    Finally, coitus may be attempted, with the female partner in the superior position so that she may withdraw immediately and again apply a squeeze to remove his urge to climax.
    Most couples find this technique to be highly successful. It can also help the female partner to be more aroused and can shorten her time to climax because it constitutes a form of extended foreplay in many cases.

3. Another therapeutic modality is the use of desensitizing cream for the male.

    In Korea and other areas of the Far East, SS cream (a combination of 9 ingredients, mainly herbal; SS stands for Super Secret) has been shown to desensitize the penis, decrease the vibratory threshold, and help men with premature ejaculation to significantly delay their ejaculatory response.[12, 13]
    Unfortunately, SS Cream is not yet approved by the US Food and Drug Administration (FDA), but simple combinations of lidocaine cream or related topical anesthetic agents can be used with similar effects and they are safe as long as the patient has no history of allergy to the substance.[14, 15]

4. If the male is relatively young and can achieve another erection in a few minutes following an episode of premature ejaculation, he may find that his control is much better the second time.

    Some therapists advise young men to masturbate (or have their partner stimulate them rapidly to climax) 1-2 hours before sexual relations are planned.
    The interval for achieving a second climax often includes a much longer period of latency, and the male can usually exert better control in this setting.
    In an older man, such a strategy may be less effective because the older man may have difficulty achieving a second erection after his first rapid sexual release. If this occurs, it can damage his confidence and may result in secondary impotence.

5. The most effective pharmacologic modality found to aid men with premature ejaculation is a drug from the selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) class, drugs which are used normally as antidepressants in the clinical setting.

    Some tricyclic antidepressants with SSRI-like activity yield the same result.
    As a side effect, many of these agents have been found to cause a significant delay in reaching orgasm in both male and female patients.
    For this reason, medications with SSRI side effects have been used in men who experience premature ejaculation.

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